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Wednesday, 22 July 2009

  • thoughts

    Just sitting around thinking about how life & the people in it have changed. Sometimes I think about how life was so much easier when we were younger & all we complained about was wanting to be older so we could do things we weren't aloud to do then. When we were younger we didn't have a care in the world & now were older & some of us have kids or are engaged but theirs still others that don't have a care in the world. Those people without a care don't have to mature like the ones who have kids & are engaged. And eventually they will have to mature & realize life isn't about partying & living life on the edge. Its crazy to see the difference between all the other people I know. Some are extremely immature & havn't found the time to grow up then their are others that have matured faster then expected & know the meaning of being an adult. Some people talk about being with someone forever & it all being taken away without noticing it slowly disappearing. Others talk about how they're life is perfect when in all reality its all a lie. They say that they don't like drama but in the end 50 persent of the time their the ones starting it or he/she runs their mouths acting like their better then you but won't say it to your face. Then theirs your friends, the ones that say they'll be their forever & mean it then theirs the ones that claim they'll be there forever & disappear after a few months or a few years. My mom has told me a number of times that you'll learn who your true friends are slowly. And when you need them the most the real ones step up. And she was right. Well theirs more to that, that i've learned over the years, you'll learn who your true friends are when changes happen in your life. The ones that really care will stick around thru it all & the fakes will disappear like nothing ever mattered. Even when your friends get a new girlfriend/boyfriend your friendship shouldn't change but i've noticed that the friends you thought you were close with will choose the new girlfriend/boyfriend over you even if their only together for a short time. The friendship will be slightly damaged and possibly not fixable. In the end your, your own best friend. You'll learn who cares & who really needs you. Either way you have to take what life throws at you and deal with it in your own way.

Thursday, 16 July 2009

  • Looking To Give Advice!

    hey everyone! I'm looking to give anyone advice about pretty much anything!! I love giving advice and this is one place where I can give it to people anonymously or not! Its all up to you! Well I'm waiting to help anyone!! Just comment or message me!  

    Lynda 

  • Heyy everyone! I'm just getting started on Xanga && I wanna do it to give advice cause I absolutely LOVE giving it to anyone about pretty much anything! You can send it by your name or anonymous whatever suits you xoxo Lynda

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  • Heyy!! Well the names Lynda. I'm 18 & a single mom to Jayden! I came on this site to give advice! I love giving anyone advice when they ask or need it so I figured why not try and help out other people! :) any questions just ask :) xoxo Lynda

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